I think the woman contacted me first in most of those cases, and while I felt flattered enough to respond initially, for a few different reasons I didn't become interested enough to continue. How to help my abused student? But if I'm on the fence, and they never say anything, I usually just drift off. My only advice is that if you want to meet someone, ask them out on a date within around 3 messages. Good news about Tinder: It can come an any time, during the date
That's a great way to make sure you never hear from the girl again.
Online Dating Etiquette: Not Interested, Here’s What to Say
I've only ever dated people from my extended circle of friends in the past, where exclusivity was expected very quickly because everyone knew you were dating or that something was brewing, at least. As the guy, am I supposed to take the lead on this? The OKCupid blog has no way to know which women are "most attractive. If you don't want to be exclusive with any of them, then I think it's OK to keep seeing multiple girls, as long as you're honest if they ask, and as long as if you're going to get naked with them to any extent, they are not under the impression that you're only seeing them. Just keep emailing people. If you don't feel comfortable with it, that's fine, but you should realize the girls probably think that you're dating other people. Oh yeah, you're anonymous, so you can't answer that, but it's important.